Saturday, December 26, 2020
Lingerie is Introduced
Monday, December 21, 2020
Crossdressing in the Time of Pandemic
I'm an office worker. For nearly all of my career, that meant the daily slog to and from the office, through bad weather and traffic. It also meant lack of direct sunlight for a couple of months on most days, because I would arrive at work before sunrise and depart after sunset. Most of the time I've worked, I've not had direct access to the outside, and the lack of sunlight is depressing.
Since March, I've joined the countless millions who are fortunate enough to be able to work from home. I would say my productivity has increased, because I spend more hours working, and less (i.e. none) on driving and idle chit-chat. I also have nice, big windows in my home office, and can enjoy the outside views all day long.
I'm also enjoying extended time crossdressing. For the first time in my life, I'm able to spend hours upon hours in lady mode. Most workday mornings, I shower, shave where needed, apply my make-up, bra and panties, breast forms, outer clothing, heels (love, love love heels!), and jewelry and wig. My make-up skills are ok, not great. My wardrobe continues to grow, and now with Winter upon us, I am wearing more sweater tops. I have an array of skirts, and I love to wear them with stockings (the kind that require a garter). In my 6" heels (with a 2" platform), I love walking around my house, feeling the softness of the nylons caressing my legs. I am not passable as a woman; I never will be. I'm too tall, and my face is too masculine. But it's ok, it's not my goal. I have to say though, that ladies clothes are so much more interesting and sexy. It's definitely a turn-on.
How does all this jibe with my lady friend? As I said in my first post, she loves all of me, and is supportive of me. However, she's not at the point where she wants to see me dressed that way, so out of great respect and love for her, I always revert to guy mode when we are together. To be clear, she is a gorgeous lady - far more so than I would ever be, so there's no chance that I would outshine her. I love being the guy in our relationship. Our romantic relationship is very good. Our "parts" fit together quite nicely, thank you very much. There's nothing I love more than bringing her the greatest pleasure, using every part of my anatomy.
So, for now, while I work from home, I enjoy the freedom to dress en femme as I please. After a near lifetime of shame and embarrassment, this experience fills me with happiness and peace.
Thanks for reading!
Jen
Sunday, November 29, 2020
A Toe in the Water
Hello,
Thank you for taking the time to read this. I'll keep the intro brief. I'm a long-time crossdresser. Either it has shaped my life or, more likely, the underlying nature of who I am emerges in many directions, and this is one facet. I've been ashamed of this part of me for my whole life. It was a primary reason for my divorce, and the loss of a long-time lady friend. They couldn't deal with it, and only added to my shame.
I'm in a new relationship now, with an amazing woman. We've been together for over a year. I love her more than I ever thought it was possible to love another person. I would endure all the hardships that led me down the road I'm on just so that I could find her again.
I was upfront with her about my past, and also about my crossdressing. She has been incredible. She told me that she loves all of me, the whole package. It's as though she recognizes that so many of my other characteristics are intertwined with this one.
Not to sound braggardly, but I do have some good qualities, like kindness, respect, empathy, and thoughtfulness. I'm submissive, an attentive lover, and a feminist. I find more joy in my lady's sexual pleasure than in my own. I'm a reasonably intelligent person. I love to learn, and to change and grow as I do.
I do not believe there is a god. I think religion is man-made (i.e. made by men, not women) and while it may have started out in pre-scientific civilization as a way to explain the unknown, it is now mostly used to sustain patriarchy. I do not belive there is a heaven or a hell, other than what we make for ourselves and each other here in this finite existence. I do not think humans are all that special among the living creatures. I believe animals have the capacity for many of the same emotions as humans; among them love, fear, happiness, sadness, anger, and grief. All animals feel pain, not just cats and dogs. Thus, I am also vegan.
So, this is a story of my new life, the one with the love of my life, who loves all of me. I guess that's enough for now.
This is my private blog, and what I say here are my thoughts and mine alone. If you're a kindred spirit, I'd like to hear from you. If you're not, that's ok too, but let's not argue about it.
Regards,
Jennifer